I struggle with this, too. The thought that helps me through this is to remind myself that I fell in love with him for the person he is, not for the person I could change him to be.
Oh, these husbands. ;-) Mine is ALWAYS late. ALWAYS. I've tried to reason with him, cattle prod him, negotiate with him, lie to him. Nothing works. I've finally realized that nothing I can do or say will change him. BUT. I sure know what to expect from him by now and plan accordingly so I don't end up disappointed or angry. :-)
This is a good reminder :-) We often look to be accepted, but constantly have our own wish-lists of others. Thank you for sharing this intention with all of us.
I struggle with this, too. The thought that helps me through this is to remind myself that I fell in love with him for the person he is, not for the person I could change him to be.
8 months ago vampish98
That's a great way to look at it. Thank you!
8 months ago JessikaN
Oh, these husbands. ;-) Mine is ALWAYS late. ALWAYS. I've tried to reason with him, cattle prod him, negotiate with him, lie to him. Nothing works. I've finally realized that nothing I can do or say will change him. BUT. I sure know what to expect from him by now and plan accordingly so I don't end up disappointed or angry. :-)
8 months ago vanessagobes
This is a good reminder :-) We often look to be accepted, but constantly have our own wish-lists of others. Thank you for sharing this intention with all of us.
"Be the change you wish to see.."
With love ~
8 months ago Luvena
Yo are so right Luvena.
Thank you !
8 months ago JessikaN